So I'm a single mom. That means I hardly have time to have a social life of any sort or even get to act like I'm 22. You'd think that I'd want to be looking for "Mr.Right," but that is definitely not ME. Me and relationships have never had a mutual agreement on how we want to ever be together. I either fall the ones that are in love with themselves, have a list of issues that I just want to fix, or you know of course are taken. I should just try to be with one that actually loves me or cares about me, but that's frightening.
***CAUTION... DON'T READ IF YOU'RE JUST GOING TO JUDGE...IT'S NOT BIBLE RIGHT!***
Well, I went out Friday night. My best friend was in town and I had been up since 5:30 that morning. When 8 O'Clock in the evening rolled around, we both were worn out. Yes... I know... we sound like grandmas. We went to the famous Chili's for dinner and a couple drinks, since my mom had already agreed to watch my son for the evening. You've got to take advantage of free babysitting when it's offered. So we enjoyed our time together at Chilis and were leaving around the same time the group was at the bar. They were pretty tipsy, but seemed like a fun crowd to be apart of. As we were walking to Mads turquoise Jeep, the two ladies that were at the bar with the four fellas stopped us and invited us to be part of their crowd for the rest of the evening at another bar. We jumped at the offer and joined them at a bar we never even knew existed about eight minutes from our houses.
We show up to this small quaint bar and gaze around. Trish offers us drinks and orders them, but this fella standing up against the bar with his muscle man arms and tight v-neck white shirt stopped her and asked for our IDs. Trish laughed and asked in her worked up Chicago accent, "who are YOU? an OFFICER or something? THESE are MY daughters. They're fine!" From then on, mister white shirt became mister officer white shirt. We grabbed the largest table excluding the bar and pulled up six chairs around it. Trish was calling her fling, Dave over to introduce us and Officer White Shirt was at the bar with who we presumed is his wife due to catching a glimpse of his titanium wedding band with a couple diamonds in it. We all were joking and just "cutting the shit" together about everything under the sun. Our nanny Ashley was all caked up with her bue Jeff, who I til this day didn't get the BEST vibe from, but anyways.
All of a sudden, bartender from Chili's arrived and I will admit that he DOES clean up very nice with his girlfriend. I believe she also works at Chili's cause I remember her face. I don't get faces, sometimes names, but that's rare. All the fellas decided that foosball was on the "to-do list" and got games going throughout the group. Mads and I never got the chance, but that's okay. We had plenty of enjoyment watching them, watching others around the bar, slamming back drinks, FREE drinks, and chit chatting with Trish. Officer white shirt was introduced to us by Dave as Tyler, but that was once he was solo. Yes, he stayed and his wife went home. Ashley made her way back over to the table and she did NOT look too HOT. We asked and she said NO. She then... disappeared, and SHOTS lots of SHOTS appeared on the table. Dave had brought over Rumplemintz for EVERYONE. My best friend was scared! That hardly happens, but I remember being the same way the first time I ever had one (my 21st birthday). She hated it, they weren't my favorite, but everyone sure as hell had freshly brushed teeth breath. We then went on a scavenger hunt for Ashley and found her locked in the bathroom stall. Nanny was dones-o. After about 45 mins of trying to get her to the car and out of the muggy bathroom, Officer White Shirt and Trish came out with her. They got her to the car and in the meantime, Jeff was trying to order more SHOTS! I was livid and ready to kick his ass. I could feel my blood a boiling and everyone knew I was about to snap on him, which I did in the parking lot. Man, if I EVER need a QUICK sober up, that's how to do it. I was so sober that I could see straight and say my abc's backwards if need be. Jeff, Dean, Tyler, Trish, myself, and Ashley were all outside by her car trying to figure out what the plans were for getting Ashley home and I could tell Mr. Jackass Jeff had other plans in mind. He wasn't worried about her, but about getting back to Chili's to his car. I had to explain that to EVERYONE there. Then I snapped on him, and I don't even really know these people, but I know fellas like him and he is not one to trust. Tyler cleared a path for them to get back & went inside. I followed to try to calm down, but my best friend offered up her keys to allow me to drive her home. Dave tried to grab me because he could tell how furious I was and Tyler just looked at me and said be careful. I went to offer up my service to drive this innocent gal home, but they were denied. I looked at Trish and told her that she would regret it tomorrow morning. (I still haven't asked if she did.) I returned inside and Dave had ordered me a drink and my best friend waited for me.
Finally calming down, we all chatted and joked about whatever popped up. I got caught up talking with Tyler about different things and questioning his marriage, which he agreed he was for only TWO months. Trish, Mads, and myself were just talking and laughing about anything when I said I wanted to just taste Officer White Shirt's lips regardless of his short marriage. He was in the middle of a talk with some unknown person and I cut in and told him what was about to happen, and he dove in before I did. (I feel like a 12 year old talking about her first kiss.) I can remember his lips pressed against mine and then his free hand grasping hold of the back of my head and only pulling me into him closer. That quick I'm assuming not even minute kiss had us both a little light headed due to receiving the unexpected. I could hear the ladies at the table cheering us on and Dave a little shocked to see his married pal actually following through on his flirtation. We both went our separate ways, mine to the table with the ladies, Dave, and Dean, and his outside. By this time the bar was creeping up on closing time and none of us were ready to let the party die. We moved our table to the bar and I was standing in between a seated best friend and a wasted Dave propped against the bar. Dave was tabbing everyone out after his already tabbed out $200 on his card. I tried to help him with his money, which he finally realized I wasn't trying to steal it and allowed me too. I went outside to chat with mister Retiring Army Tyler and EVERYONE followed. We had decided that we were going to go eat after I took Dean back to his hotel.
Tyler wanted Taco Cabana and my best friend wanted IHop, so we went to Ihop. Dave promised me to meet us there and Tyler was going to drive them there. We dropped Dean off and I was about to piss all over myself so Trish and myself along with Dean made our way up to his hotel room. I peed, she layed down on the bed. I think she was wanting to get it in, but Dean kicked us out. We returned back to my best friends car where she and this random fella named Nate were waiting. No one knew where he had come from, but somehow we were stuck with him. We arrive at Ihop where the guys are waiting for us. We make our way inside and they put us in the VERY back corner because Tyler is over here talking to the security guard about dine and dashing! I wasn't hungry, but sure as hell wanted some water. I sat in between Tyler and Dave once he managed to leave his pick up geek squad at a table nearby. Tyler and I had began our own conversation and I believe both of us were starting to sober up pretty well. The drunkies were definitely gorging themselves in their breakfast and conversation. Mads called me and told me she was ready to go since it was already 3:30 SATURDAY MORNING. I told her to wait so I could continue my in depth conversation with Tyler. It wasn't an ordinary I picked you up at the bar lets just talk and flirt and I am gonna take you home type of conversation, but a very heart to heart conversation that you only have with your best friend or something. I had a connection with him, and I believe he did too, but I'm not sure. We were in the middle of a sentence when Dave SNAPPED on this Nate fella. I then became the smushed meat in between Ty holding back Dave. Dave left his phone on the table as he and white shirt marched out. I quickly grabbed the phone and followed. (by this time, Dave had already bought dinner and tipped the waiter, so no dine and dash.) Trish tried to stop me, but that wasn't going to happen. She called me all kinds of names, I kept walking, and Madi was trying to tell her to just let me go. I went outside and Ty was trying to understand what was said that made Dave break. I handed back his brand new white Galaxy S4 and he profusely thanked me and apologized for the outbreak. We chatted for a minute and tried to come up with a plan because I was NOT done with my conversation with a hurting retiring army fella. I knew I had to take Trish home and Nate back to his car, but my car was at home. Well I went inside to pee again and here comes the trio and I'm like...uhhh were yall planning on going somewhere, I have the key?
We make our way outside and I knew the guys were waiting for me to come back outside, so I unlocked the doors and walked over to Dave's car. I felt like I was in high school or something. Tyler and I just kept making out and talking. It was fantastic. We wanted the night to continue together, but I knew in my gut it wasn't going to happen. YES I KNOW HE IS MARRIED! I felt like a friendship with all these people had started and I haven't felt like that in a LONG time. I didn't want it to go. Well Dave mentioned to Trish for her and I to go back to his apartment, but Trish could barely keep her eyes open and I knew it was back to mommy duties in the morning. Took nate back to the bar to get his car and then Trish gets a call from Dave asking again for us to go over to his apartment. I nipped that in the butt, but then Tyler called off of Dave's phone to ask himself. This is the MARRIED man who told me that he would NOT go through with having SEX because he is MARRIED, but just liked the flirting, but wanted ME to come over. AHHH! I told him I'd call back once I got home, which was two minutes away. I texted when I got all comfy in bed that I was going to go to sleep, but that didn't stop him from calling me again. I told him to get my number from Dave and to text me. I knew he had plans saturday with his wife, but I still haven't heard from him. I knew in my gut that he wasn't going to get my number, but I still hope to hear from him this week! I don't want to be a homewrecker, I just want the conversation again. The whole getting to know somebody feeling again.
Anyways.. I know that this shows how low of a character I can be, but it takes two. I will own up to my actions and I don't regret them. I should, but I don't. He is married and I will probably never run into him again or hear from him even though he told me he wouldn't stunt. Ahhhh! That was my Friday night and I want to have SOOOO many more like that again. I felt 22 and I'm happy about it.
I KNOW THIS IS THE ENDING I DESERVE, BUT A LADY CAN ONLY HOPE, PRAY, AND WISH TO HEAR FROM HIM AGAIN. ;]
